How to Tell A Story

storytellingThese days, you cannot hope to keep an audience listening to you if you don’t include stories. Businesses are full of stories; how the product was designed, how the founders started, what the market wants ….. You just have to know how to tell it. Here is the essential guide.

  1. Plan your story starting with the takeaway message. Think about what’s important to the audience. The ending is the most important point of the story. This is the message we want to deliver, and the one that will linger with the audience.
  1. Keep your stories short for the workplace. Three to five minutes long is about what people can digest in today’s ADD world.
  1. Good stories are about challenge or conflict. Without these elements, stories aren’t very interesting. The compelling part of a story is how people deal with conflict–-so start with the people and the conflict.
  1. Think about your story like a movie. Imagine you are screenwriter with a goal to get your message across. The story has to have a beginning, middle, and end
  1. Start with a person and his challenge, and intensify human interest by adding descriptions of time, place, and people with their emotions.
  1. Be creative. A good story always has ups and downs, so “arc” the story. Pull people along, and introduce tension, just like in a fairy tale. (“From out of nowhere, the wolf jumps onto the path…”)
  1. Intensify the story with vivid language and intonation. Tap into people’s emotions with language. Use metaphors, idioms, and parables that have emotional associations.

Most of us have not told stories in front of an audience since English class in high school. So you will need to practice.

 

Write like Hemingway? – The App

Most of what we write – and say – in sales is too complicated.

This piece describes the app which takes the approach of the old master – Earnest Hemingway – and checks your writing for simplicity. Genius.


http://www.fastcocreate.com/3026703/learn-to-write-like-papa-with-the-hemingway-app?partner=rss&utm_content=buffer378b5&utm_medium=social&utm_source=linkedin.com&utm_campaign=buffer

How To : Great Online Meetings

 How To: Great Online Meetings

The day to day reality of global cooperation, virtual teams and remote management is the online meeting. Just the pinging of the “has joined the meeting” chorus is enough to drive anyone crazy. So what is the answer? Less is much, much more: less of these meetings and keep them as short as possible. Like most meetings you get out what you put in, but the  key is to act as if people really are sitting in the room ……..

  • Start in the way that sets a good mood in the room.

  • Act as you would if they were in the room:  chat about real life, talk about the weather, ask people how they are – GIVE OF YOURSELF!

  • Show rather than tell  – use interesting slides, infographics and pictures.

  • Compensate for not being able to see everyone’s body language, habits and mood by listening hard and asking questions.

  • Let people know on chat a couple of minutes before you call on them to speak.

  • Remember the 1:2:3 FACT: FIX: FEEL rule for  online meetings where there is a challenge or conflict to discuss.

         For all the facts you mention, spend twice as long talking about the fix and     three times as long talking about how people feel about it .

  • Stand up if you are running the meeting. Your higher energy levels will be felt.

Online Meeting Coaching

The best way to improve your online meeting technique – particularly if you  have to present or lead these meetings – is to get some online coaching in the subject. Sessions are One-to-One Sessions of one and half hours each SIGN UP FOR A FREE HALF HOUR TASTER SESSION BELOW!!

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The Shapes of Stories

Kurt Vonnegut was a master storyteller. In four and a half minutes he shows the emotional journeys that give stories their shape. It is brilliant and witty and worth a look.

Thanks to Park Howell for drawing our attention to this gem on his great blog at parkhowell.com.

Online Story Presence Courses

Learn How To Tell What’s Worth Telling

“People buy people” the adage goes. Yet many presentations lack the stories that make us.

In these online sessions we demonstrate the shortcuts to being really memorable through the stories you tell.  At its core is the belief that real leaders today entertain, engage and inspire by thinking about the events in their lives and organisations that need to be told.

being your brand; the room as your platform; energy; personality; buzz in the room; tough empathy;being memorable; revealing your differences selectively; stand out; change minds; fascinating insights; content that connects

Format 

Online One-to-One Sessions of one and half hours each

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Session 1: Your Story

What you want to get out of these sessions

Why Story Works

Great Examples

Tips to apply immediately

Session 2:Your Style

Analysis of current style

Nice Guy, Technical Specialist, Control Freak or Dreamer?

Pushing your personal envelope – developing a more vital story style

Session 3: Creating Stories

Messaging

How to create great stories

Using descriptors

Dialog

What to leave in, what to leave out

 Session 4: Story Magic

Using the room as your theater

Engagement – how does it happen

Analysis of different impact of storytelling on the audience

Conveying your energy

Session 5: Killer Technique

Build ups

Knockdowns

Machine Gunning

Attention Uppers

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Each session lasts 1 hour 30 minutes

One Session      USD 280.00

Five Sessions    USD 1100.00

Ten Sessions    USD  2600.00

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Our Top 10 Storytelling tips – in Fast Company!

Check out our 10 Top Storytelling Tips from Susan Fisher in this Fast Company piece by David Lavenda

ONCE UPON A TIME AT THE OFFICE: 10 STORYTELLING TIPS TO HELP YOU BE MORE PERSUASIVE

BY: DAVID LAVENDA


Once upon a time, in a faraway kingdom, there was a salesman who traveled the countryside, peddling his wares. Everyone loved his product except the evil king, who wanted to do away with it. One day the king said, “This product is ruining my kingdom and I want to destroy it. If anyone has a reason for why this product should live, let him come hither and speak now.” Out of the crowd came a voice. “I think this product is great and I can prove it,” said the brave salesman. “Then come to my palace tomorrow morning and prove to me why this is so,” said the king. And so the salesman went home and prepared PowerPoint slide after PowerPoint slide filled with endless statistics and dizzying market projection graphs.

On the morrow, the salesman turned up at the palace. “Show me why I should spare your miserable product,” said the king. The salesmen opened his trusty laptop and started to plow through his heaping deck of slides. Starting with a company background, the salesman went on to show market trend graphs, customer case studies, and then analyst quotes. The king began to squirm on his throne. When a return on investment spreadsheet appeared on slide 47, the king finally had enough. “Off with your head,” said the king. “Originally, I only wanted to kill your product, but this presentation is criminal.”

Funny story, but you get the point. The point is a message was delivered using a story, not a statistic or an analyst quote.

Much has been written lately about the efficacy of storytelling in the workplace. Most of it is based on a general feeling that stories “work.” “Persuasion is the centerpiece of business activity,” says screenwriter Robert McKee in an HBR article entitled “Storytelling That Works.” “Trying to convince people with logic is tough for two reasons. One is they are arguing with you in their heads while you are making your argument. Second, if you do succeed in persuading them, you’ve done so only on an intellectual basis. That’s not good enough, because people are not inspired to act by reason alone.”

But there’s more proof of storytelling’s effectiveness than just anecdotal evidence. For example, studies carried out by Melanie C. Green and Timothy C. Brock at Ohio State University have empirically shown that people’s beliefs can be swayed more effectively through storytelling than through logical arguments. The researchers posit that persuasion is most effective when people are “transported” to another place using a story.

Recently I had the opportunity to sit down to discuss this topic with Susan Fisher, a strategic communication expert and principal at First Class. “People are always telling stories; why don’t they do it at work?” asks Fisher. “It’s because they have been taught that at work you use logic and slides and statistics; this seems more professional. Telling stories seems too emotional and possibly manipulative. So people stick to facts and numbers. But the truth is that real emotions always work better, because that is the way to reach hearts and minds, and also people get to see the real you. It’s authentic.”

While we are all intuitively storytellers, I asked Fisher to share some of her insights about where professionals most often need to focus when telling stories in the workplace. Here are Fisher’s top 10 tips for becoming a more effective storyteller at work:

  1. Plan your story starting with the takeaway message. Think about what’s important to the audience. The ending is the most important point of the story. This is the message we want to deliver, and the one that will linger with the audience.
  2. Keep your stories short for the workplace. Three to five minutes long is about what people can digest in today’s ADD world.
  3. Good stories are about challenge or conflict. Without these elements, stories aren’t very interesting. The compelling part of a story is how people deal with conflict–-so start with the people and the conflict.
  4. Think about your story like a movie. Imagine you are screenwriter with a goal to get your message across. The story has to have a beginning, middle, and end.
  5. Start with a person and his challenge, and intensify human interest by adding descriptions of time, place, and people with their emotions.
  6. Be creative. Create a storyboard; draw it out, while listening to music or reading something for inspiration. A good story always has ups and downs, so “arc” the story. Pull people along, and introduce tension, just like in a fairy tale. (“From out of nowhere, the wolf jumps onto the path…”)
  7. Intensify the story with vivid language and intonation. Tap into people’s emotions with language. Use metaphors, idioms, and parables that have emotional associations. (Note: For more on this, see Leo Widrich’s article entitled, “Which Words Matter Most When You Talk” and studies on intonation performed by Ingrid Johnsrude at Cambridge University).
  8. When using a story in a PowerPoint presentation, use appropriate graphics/pictures to convey your message. Stay away from text and complicated graphics. A single picture interlaced with emotional language will go a long way to convey your message.
  9. Most of us have not told stories in front of an audience since English class in high school. So you will need to practice. Tell your story in front of a friendly audience and get feedback. Gauge your pace, and take note of the story’s length and your use of language. It will be a bit rusty at first, but underneath it all, we are all born storytellers.
  10. The most important point is to make the switch within; because once you internalize that today’s “left-brain” communication style doesn’t work very well and you realize that stories are how people really communicate, you will find it a lot easier to proceed…because it’s authentic. And that is what really persuades.

Fisher also recommends signing up for a storytelling workshop. There are even workshops you can do online; find more information here.

Finally, in the words of Ira Glass, “Great stories happen to those who tell them.” So tell them…and live happily ever after.

http://www.fastcompany.com/3015140/leadership-now/once-upon-a-time-at-the-office-10-storytelling-tips-to-help-you-be-more-persu